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i love life but i dont like the world

"The world" is where life takes place. At least for the time being.

Part of the secret to being happy is to not become comfortable with being angry or distressed. It's best not to make a hobby, or even a frequent source of reflection, out of grievance.

This is more easily done if one doesn't constantly compare oneself to others, which is something most unfortunately learn to do early, no matter in which political system they find themselves. It is also helpful not to dwell on the past or think too incessantly about the future -- except when actual, concrete planning is involved (as opposed to pointless worrying).

There is good all around us. From day to day, it's not always spectacular but it is there. If we make up our mind to see it, it will seem to become more obvious. Optimism is a good habit. Pessimism is far too common, and often applauded as if it were some sort of wisdom.

In fact, the world has been improving, long term, for a long, long time.

Chess even furnishes us with examples: think of the many great chess players who died young, before 1950 ... of tuberculosis! There are probably many more than most people realize.

How often does that happen today? People are living much longer now, and with much less risk of dying of things that used to cut many lives short.

Imagine how much better Steinitz's life would have been if he could have gone on the internet and monetized a following?

Wanting success is not evil or selfish, in and of itself. Much good results from the ambition of good people. Much unhappiness results from the resentment of success.

That said, happiness doesn't require achieving greatness. Happiness is more like a decision than a goal.
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@Oportunist said in #2:
> why did we turn the world into such a mess?we created systems that lead to suffering
I recommend a deep study in the Buddhist 4 Noble Truths
@CSKA_Moscou said in #16:
> the cave metaphor can be very useful to read for this forum.
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> it is just as difficult to live in society as it is to keep society alive.
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> Fitting in and adapting to a society can be difficult and no one wants to be an outcast. the problem is that Athenian democracy had a rather unequal system, where women and foreigners did not have voting rights, and where slavery existed. the educational system of Athenian society is much less glorious than we imagine. therefore, there was bound to be a large percentage of people who could not participate in society. and unfortunately, the dogma was sufficiently well established that no one was surprised by the lack of equality. the Athenian system was rather corrupt, since politicians and strategists did not hesitate to make family alliances or to assert their blood ties. For an average Athenian, other than living your life and voting, you don't matter to society.
> you were just another ant.
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> although the philosophers are at the origin of the ideas which influence the Athenian democracy, they have a philosophical point of view, that is to say a sort of utopia of the search for the model society where the intellect triumphs. unfortunately this quest is fruitless, but rich in lessons.
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> so be an enlightened philosopher rather than an ant in the anthill.

Damn, bro really wrote a whole essay..

Nice.
@SecondsAreMinutes7 said in #24:
> Damn, bro really wrote a whole essay..
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> Nice.
FSociety bro, we know.
In fact some of us predicted and warned you all decades ago...
The merge of big corporations and government is by default Fascism, while it is written in their law it's forbidden ( pure P.R.)but they do so at will. And you think any will go better? We simply have no choice, it is forbidden by laws that themselves infringe but then we need gov. for our payments to consume and make them richer,